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Connection is the Essence of Leadership

In the realm of leadership, connection is the lifeblood that fuels high-performing teams and creates environments where innovation thrives. Brené Brown’s poignant observation that “Connection is the energy that is created between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued—when they can give and receive without judgment” encapsulates the essence of what it means to lead with heart and impact.

As a leadership coach dedicated to nurturing these connections, I’ve found that integrating the principles of Everything DiSC® with Brene’s philosophy on leadership and vulnerability opens a powerful pathway for leaders to grow.

The Power of Seeing and Being Seen

Everything DiSC provides a framework for understanding ourselves and others at a deeper level. By appreciating the diverse communication styles, motivators, and stressors that each DiSC profile brings to the table, leaders can create an environment where every team member truly feels seen.

When leaders recognize the ‘D’ style’s need for directness and challenge, the ‘i’ style’s enthusiasm for collaboration and expression, the ‘S’ style’s appreciation for support and stability, and the ‘C’ style’s drive for accuracy and logic, they validate their team members’ intrinsic values. This recognition is the first step in forging genuine connections.

The Art of Listening and Being Heard

Active listening is at the heart of connection. Leaders who listen are leaders who care. Through the lens of Everything DiSC, we learn that each style listens differently and seeks to be heard in its own unique way. Tailoring our listening approach not only demonstrates respect but also elevates the quality of interactions and decision-making within a team.

The Gift of Valuing and Being Valued

In a world that often prioritizes productivity over people, taking the time to value each person’s contributions is revolutionary. With the insights gained from Everything DiSC assessments, leaders can spot the unique strengths of their team and celebrate them, fostering a sense of worth and belonging.

The Freedom of Giving and Receiving Without Judgment

The Everything DiSC model encourages open, non-judgmental communication. It equips leaders with the understanding needed to foster a culture of constructive feedback and reciprocal support. By embracing vulnerability as Brown advises, leaders show their teams that it’s safe to take risks, share ideas, and admit mistakes.

Weaving Together Connection and Growth

The journey of becoming a great leader is continuous and multifaceted. By employing the tools provided by Everything DiSC and embracing the principles of connection as described by Brené Brown, leaders can cultivate a team atmosphere ripe for growth. 

It’s in this space that the magic happens—where people are emboldened to innovate, collaborate, and excel.

As we teach leaders to grow through Everything DiSC, we’re not just facilitating better work; we’re nurturing the human connections that make the work worthwhile. 

We’re helping leaders to not only understand the mechanics of team dynamics but also to foster the emotional intelligence that is essential for true leadership.

Let’s remember that connection is not a byproduct of leadership; it is the very essence. 

As we move forward, may we all strive to create teams that pulse with the energy of connection—where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.


Tammy Krings and The Conversations That Matter have been teaching Everything DiSC® for 20+ years and have crafted the Building Great Teams curriculum and resources based on what we’ve learned from leading team workshops hundreds of times. We are the exclusive creator and provider of the Building Great Teams Program. Curious how Everything DiSC can help connect your team? Let’s connect.